A 3D Flower Filet Crochet Shawl (also known as an etol or wrap) is one of the most beautiful and timeless crochet projects you can make. It combines delicate lacework with three-dimensional floral motifs that give your finished piece an elegant, textured appearance. Whether you’re creating it for a special event, gifting it, or simply adding a touch of sophistication to your wardrobe, this shawl is a rewarding and enjoyable project even for beginners.
Let’s walk through everything you need — from choosing yarn and hook size, to understanding filet crochet charts, to assembling and finishing your beautiful 3D floral masterpiece.

🧶 What You’ll Need
Materials:
- Yarn: Lightweight or fingering weight yarn works best (cotton, silk, or soft acrylic blend).
Recommended: Size 2 or 3 cotton yarn for a light, elegant drape. - Hook: 2.5 mm – 3.5 mm crochet hook (depending on your yarn thickness and personal tension).
- Scissors
- Tapestry needle (for weaving in ends)
- Blocking board & pins (optional, but highly recommended for shaping)
Optional Add-ons:
- Beads or pearls for the flower centers
- Metallic thread for a shimmering effect
🪡 Understanding Filet Crochet Basics
Filet crochet is a lacy technique that uses a simple pattern of solid and open squares.
Each square is formed with double crochet (dc) stitches and chain spaces (ch).
- Open Square: 1 dc, ch 2, skip 2 sts, 1 dc
- Solid Square: 3 dc across
By alternating these squares, you can “draw” patterns or shapes — like flowers, leaves, or geometric designs — within your fabric.
In this shawl, we’ll integrate 3D flowers between or on top of the filet mesh for a textured, romantic look.
🌼 Step-by-Step Instructions
Step 1: Create the Base Mesh
- Foundation Chain:
Start with a chain that’s a multiple of 3 + 5 (e.g., ch 125 for a small shawl, or ch 245 for a wider wrap). - Row 1:
Dc in 5th ch from hook (counts as first dc + 2 ch spaces), ch 2, skip 2 ch, dc in next ch across.
Turn your work. - Row 2:
Ch 3 (counts as first dc), dc in next dc, ch 2, skip 2, dc in next dc for open mesh; or 3 dc across for solid blocks depending on your chosen chart. - Continue building the filet pattern following your flower chart or written pattern.
📝 Tip: If you’re a beginner, start with a simple floral layout — such as a single flower motif centered between open mesh squares.

Step 2: Add 3D Flowers
Once your filet mesh base is completed or partially done, it’s time to crochet the 3D flowers.
Basic 3D Flower Pattern:
- Round 1:
Make a magic ring, ch 1, and work 10 sc inside the ring. Join with a slip stitch. - Round 2:
(Ch 3, 2 dc, ch 3, sl st in next st) — repeat around to make 5 petals. - Round 3 (Optional for double-layered flowers):
Work behind the petals — (ch 4, sl st in next st behind petal) around to create a base for a second layer. Then, make slightly larger petals (ch 4, 3 dc, ch 4, sl st). - Fasten off and weave in the ends.
Attach the flowers:
- Sew or crochet them onto the filet mesh where you want a 3D effect — corners, edges, or scattered across the shawl.
- You can mix sizes and shades for a natural, blossoming look.
Step 3: Shaping and Edging the Shawl
To give your shawl a polished look, finish with an elegant edging.
Simple Scalloped Edging:
- Attach yarn at one corner.
- (Sk 1 st, 5 dc in next st, sk 1 st, sl st in next) repeat around.
- This creates soft waves that frame your piece beautifully.
Lacy Edging (Optional):
If you prefer a more intricate finish, try:
(sc, ch 3, dc, ch 3, sc) across the border for a lacy touch.
Step 4: Blocking Your Shawl
Blocking helps open up the filet mesh and define the flowers.
- Soak the shawl gently in lukewarm water for 10–15 minutes.
- Lay it flat on a towel and roll it to remove excess moisture.
- Pin the shawl onto a blocking board, shaping the edges evenly.
- Let it dry completely.
This step will make your shawl look smooth, professional, and airy.

🌺 Styling Ideas
A 3D Flower Filet Crochet Shawl is incredibly versatile:
- Wrap it around your shoulders for formal occasions or weddings.
- Drape it as a scarf over casual outfits.
- Use it as a table cover or decorative throw — the lacework makes it a stunning home accent.
For a more delicate touch, try:
- White or pastel shades for a bridal or springtime look
- Deep jewel tones (emerald, wine, navy) for a rich, luxurious wrap
🧵 Tips for Beginners
- Practice tension: Filet crochet looks best when stitches are consistent in height and spacing.
- Start small: Make a small sample swatch before working on the full shawl.
- Use stitch markers to keep your pattern aligned.
- Read or follow a chart carefully — filet crochet charts are like pixel art, where each square represents a block of stitches.
- Experiment with 3D motifs: Try adding leaves or tiny rosebuds for more depth.
💐 Conclusion
The 3D Flower Filet Crochet Shawl is the perfect blend of simplicity and elegance. Even as a beginner, you can create something that looks intricate and handmade with love. Once you understand the basics of filet crochet and simple flower motifs, the possibilities are endless — you can design your own patterns, play with colors, or combine motifs for unique results.
Whether worn at a special event, gifted to someone dear, or displayed as a piece of art, your handmade 3D floral shawl will always stand out as a timeless, elegant creation.
